Showing posts with label human trafficking. Show all posts
Showing posts with label human trafficking. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 5, 2019

Refuge for Women ( North Texas)


I’ve mentioned a few times my activities with an organization that I am a Core volunteer for Refuge for Women of North Texas.  By Core, that means I’ve gone to multiple training classes , interviews and have had background checks to be allowed at Safe house with the women.   We’re currently in 6 states total but with plans to expand every year. RFW is about aftercare for women who have been trafficked and sexually exploited.  It’s a non-profit, faith based organization that provides long-term care for those who have escaped the from human trafficking. Its no charge to the resident and offers up to twelve months of safe housing with around the clock care. They have weekly sessions with licensed professional counselors to help them achieve their goals and healing. The residents work through the program to reclaim their identities and to overcome addictions. They will develop life skills leading to  a healthy ,balanced life and financial independence. 

There are 3 phases: Phase 1 is Healing for the first 6 months.  Phase 1 provides the stabilization and safety for victims of trauma in a therapeutic atmosphere to sustain safe relationships, rebuild trust, and maintain a lifestyle of structure that promotes recovery. The daily schedule includes classes, recovery meetings, recreational activities, exercise, Bible studies, solo and group counseling.  The classes are designed to aid in healing from things such as trauma, domestic violence, substance abuse, sexual addiction, and codependency.

Phase 2 is Job Prep for 3 months – During this phase, the women are equipped with the tools and training to achieve and maintain a healthy well-grounded life. This includes computer education training, preparing a resume, participating in mock interviews, exploring careers through internships, and receiving job placement assistance.  They are assisted in setting personal goals in the areas of higher education, financial planning, and their own personal growth. They continue to receive individualized coaching and weekly support meetings.

Phase 3- Employment- 3 months. During this optional portion of the program, residents are offered continued support, assessment and accountability from the program director, individual counseling and additional life skills development.

The safe house is wonderful. Its even got a pool for them to exercise and play in during the warm months.  The residents share rooms with other gals so they learn to trust and share pretty quickly.

Some staggering statistics:   At least 75% of prostitutes were sexually and/or physically abused children.

92% of women who were involved in prostitution said they wanted to leave, but couldn’t because they lack basic human services such as a home, job training, health care, counseling and treatment for drug or alcohol addiction.

Over 31,000 human trafficking cases were reported in the US in the last 8 years…. If that is the number reported, what is the actual number of occurrences?

AND so far 169 arrested for human trafficking last weekend during the Super Bowl.

The 3 top states with most human trafficking activity are California, New York and Texas .



In April we are having a huge fundraising Gala so I’m about to be very busy in preparation for that ( I have a meeting tonight , and every week now until April 11).



January was human trafficking awarenesss month so we were pretty busy with events, speaking engagements, panels, etc to get the word out.

So that’s that.  Now you know what I’m talking about when I mention RFW and post pics from events.  


Wednesday, January 30, 2019

Painting with friends

Hey all, I hope wherever you're at- you're staying warm!!  My poor husband actually had to fly into Chicago yesterday for a business meeting this week. One of his meetings have already been cancelled for tomorrow so he's going to try to fly home tonight. I cant believe the crazy cold temps going on there.
So last weekend was a super busy one. I had a birthday party last Friday and she wanted a group of us to go paint at one of the Painting with a Twist locations. That means we can drink wine while painting. This was my second time to attend a painting party and they really are sooo fun. As long as you know your limits , you wont be too disappointed. HAHA! I am terrible. I just don't have the skills to pull it off but I had fun doing it so I didn't care. I have the painting in my Goodwill bag in the garage as we speak.


Saturday morning, we went on a close breakfast run on the Harley and it was 35 degrees. We met a new couple at church a few weeks ago that also ride so we invited them to go with us.  We just rode a few miles away to the closest Cracker Barrel  which is always a great idea in my mind. I love their French toast! 
Later in the day, I  volunteered at an event in Denton to represent Refuge for Women of North Texas that i'm a core volunteer for.  That was for a few hours and it was great! I want to talk more about that on separate post regarding Human Trafficking.  A guy was there who was a producer for an independent movie on that topic and it was being released that day. There was also a young lady there who spoke about being a survivor of Sex trafficking and how she was sold to the mob by her own father because he was a gambler.  It was heart breaking but also empowering to see her strength!
We had dinner with some friends later that evening who we haven't seen in a few months so that was nice. 
Sunday, we went to church and after lunch, Todd rode the bike some more because it was a beautiful day but I went home and finished a book I was reading and took a nap.  It was a great weekend. This week, just focusing on work and taking care of my pups while Todd is out of town.  Kinda boring post today. LOL 
I'll talk to ya soon!!